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Sacrament of Matrimony

A message from Father Lappe regarding the
Sacrament of Matrimony at St. Thomas


Take the Matrimony Test

THE SIGN

Words - the mutual consent of the persons, expressed by words or signs in accordance with the laws of the Church.

Rings

Baltimore Catechism, answer to Question 1009


INSTITUTION BY JESUS CHRIST

But from the beginning of creation, 'God made them male and female. For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother (and be joined to his wife), and the two shall become one flesh.' So they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, no human being must separate."

Mark 10:6-9


Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ loved the church and handed himself over for her to sanctify her.... cleansing her by the bath of water with the word, that he might present to himself the church in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish. So (also) husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one hates his own flesh but rather nourishes and cherishes it, even as Christ does the church, because we are members of his body. "For this reason a man shall leave (his) father and (his) mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh." This is a great mystery, but I speak in reference to Christ and the church.

In any case, each one of you should love his wife as himself, and the wife should respect her husband.

Ephesians 5:25-33


THE GRACE (effect)

The effects of the Sacrament of Matrimony are:

  • to sanctify the love of husband and wife;
  • to give them grace to bear with each other's weaknesses;
  • to enable them to bring up their children in the fear and love of God.

Baltimore Catechism, answer to Question 1028

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